Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Senior Dating For Men and Women Who Are Young At Heart: The Senior Dating Online Handbook Complete With Relevant Online Dating Tips And Relationship ... Senior Relationships Throughout Old Age

Senior Dating For Men and Women Who Are Young At Heart: The Senior Dating Online Handbook Complete With Relevant Online Dating Tips And Relationship ... Senior Relationships Throughout Old AgeOnline dating has become the norm in this modern day and age. Relationships don’t only start online, they bloom online, too, and if it’s the real thing, it also works out in the real world in due time. What’s cool about online dating is that seniors are not excluded. Dating on the internet doesn’t work for just young or middle-age people. The lonely, elderly, young at heart can meet wonderful people through online dating and actually carry out deep and meaningful relationships in the real world that last all through old age until death. There have been many criticisms about seniors dating online, even offline. Most of the disapproval comes from their adult children and family relatives with concerns on whether senior dating online is safe and if it’s decent. Society sets certain expectations for every life stages. It’s like when you reach old age it’s expected that your love-lust hormones should settle down instead of going on overdrive. It should be kept in mind that senior citizens are equipped with enough wisdom and experience to handle their personal and intimate relationships in a responsible way. For this reason, old age should not be an issue in relation to dating, sex and love even when carried out online. This book is an online dating guide written especially for senior men and women. It will make clear some of the following issues: • Should you date online? • Danger and precautions • Online flirting • Helping your grown kids cope with your dating life • Attracting women • Attracting men • Seniors and sex The guidelines, tips and secrets outlined here will help make senior online dating safe, decent, and most especially, fun and exciting so that, even though elderly, senior citizens can have a busy, active and fulfilling love life throughout their old age!

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Friday, July 15, 2011

Teen Dating For Girls, For Boys And For Parents: What Really Happens On A Date? How To Act? What To Say? Get Dating Tips Plus Teenage Love Advice On ... About Teenage Relationships In The Real World

Teen Dating For Girls, For Boys And For Parents: What Really Happens On A Date? How To Act? What To Say? Get Dating Tips Plus Teenage Love Advice On ... About Teenage Relationships In The Real WorldHow do girls and boys meet and fall in love? That’s what’s foremost in the mind of every girl and boy who has reached puberty but is not yet an adult. Ahh…your first crush, your first date, your first kiss, maybe your first sex and even your first love …it all happens in the teenage years. It can be mostly an exciting time for many young people. For some girls and boys, it will be a period of mostly unpleasant and upsetting experiences. But, it will certainly be a phase which all parents dread! A huge part of the teener’s world revolves around teenage relationships. As they go through the changes in their physical bodies, they are, at the same time, having to deal with forming significant connections with other people. The typical teenage dream is all about being popular and falling in love. Over the years, not that much has really changed about that dream. Having lots of friends, actively dating, even being openly sexual, is still a really big deal to most teen girls and boys. Dating, love and sex are still big issues today, not just for the teenage boy or girl, but also for their parents. Excepting the concept of online dating, teen dating in this modern real world still deals with the same mechanics -- boy meets girl, girl meets boy, they go out to talk, to eat, hold hands and do some kissing. That’s basically what really happens on an ideal date. Sex can or can’t happen. It’s a good thing that teens and their parents can talk about it openly now. Dating is a chance for two young people who are romantically attracted to one another to really get to know each other more deeply. No matter how scary, nothing beats the adrenaline rush of crushing on someone and finally getting the nerve to ask that someone out. How does a teenage boy ask a girl out for a date? Can a girl ask a boy out? What does the teen girl do then when a boy asks her out? What if he asks and the girl says no? How does a girl say no? What do you do on a date? How do you act, what do you say? How intimate can you go? Are you falling in love? Boys have their ideas. Girls, too, have their points of view. A boy would sure like to know what a girl wants out of a date. A girl, too, would like to know what a boy expects on a date. Parents for sure would like to discover what ideas most boys and girls have about dating. This book is the ultimate teen dating guide for girls, for boys and their parents. It will discuss teen dating on the standpoint of boys and of girls so that: 1. Each will know what the other expects when going out on a date, and 2. Parents will understand a teenager’s perspective about dating and be guided accordingly.

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Friday, June 3, 2011

Teen Dating For Girls, For Boys And For Parents: What Really Happens On A Date? How To Act? What To Say? Get Dating Tips Plus Teenage Love Advice On ... About Teenage Relationships In The Real World

Teen Dating For Girls, For Boys And For Parents: What Really Happens On A Date? How To Act? What To Say? Get Dating Tips Plus Teenage Love Advice On ... About Teenage Relationships In The Real WorldHow do girls and boys meet and fall in love? That’s what’s foremost in the mind of every girl and boy who has reached puberty but is not yet an adult. Ahh…your first crush, your first date, your first kiss, maybe your first sex and even your first love …it all happens in the teenage years. It can be mostly an exciting time for many young people. For some girls and boys, it will be a period of mostly unpleasant and upsetting experiences. But, it will certainly be a phase which all parents dread! A huge part of the teener’s world revolves around teenage relationships. As they go through the changes in their physical bodies, they are, at the same time, having to deal with forming significant connections with other people. The typical teenage dream is all about being popular and falling in love. Over the years, not that much has really changed about that dream. Having lots of friends, actively dating, even being openly sexual, is still a really big deal to most teen girls and boys. Dating, love and sex are still big issues today, not just for the teenage boy or girl, but also for their parents. Excepting the concept of online dating, teen dating in this modern real world still deals with the same mechanics -- boy meets girl, girl meets boy, they go out to talk, to eat, hold hands and do some kissing. That’s basically what really happens on an ideal date. Sex can or can’t happen. It’s a good thing that teens and their parents can talk about it openly now. Dating is a chance for two young people who are romantically attracted to one another to really get to know each other more deeply. No matter how scary, nothing beats the adrenaline rush of crushing on someone and finally getting the nerve to ask that someone out. How does a teenage boy ask a girl out for a date? Can a girl ask a boy out? What does the teen girl do then when a boy asks her out? What if he asks and the girl says no? How does a girl say no? What do you do on a date? How do you act, what do you say? How intimate can you go? Are you falling in love? Boys have their ideas. Girls, too, have their points of view. A boy would sure like to know what a girl wants out of a date. A girl, too, would like to know what a boy expects on a date. Parents for sure would like to discover what ideas most boys and girls have about dating. This book is the ultimate teen dating guide for girls, for boys and their parents. It will discuss teen dating on the standpoint of boys and of girls so that: 1. Each will know what the other expects when going out on a date, and 2. Parents will understand a teenager’s perspective about dating and be guided accordingly.

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Friday, April 8, 2011

7 Secrets Chart Your Course to Success in Love, Relationships


Achieving success in a love relationship is not as difficult as it might seem. Just like anything, the first step is knowing how to go about it in the right way. Men and women go into love relationships hoping they've made the right choice. Many think they've found "the one" and anticipate endless happiness, only to be disappointed yet again.

Why is it so difficult to find the right person to love and to be loved back? Despite a string of short-lived relationships, we all hope that someday we will find our true love. This hope-fed by a need to find acceptance, to be cared for, to feel safe and secure-is the driving force that keeps us searching after each failed relationship. And our need to be loved is perfectly natural, regardless of whether we come from a liberated background or a strict one.

Call me an eternal optimist, but I believe, as the saying goes, "There's a right shoe for every foot." Here are some basic steps to follow that will change your love life and make you the envy of your friends.

Secret 1: Know what you want. Clearly decide what it is that you hope to find in the love relationship. For example, is it happiness that you want? Is it just companionship? And so on. When you have defined what it is that you want, you need to find someone heading in the same direction.

Secret 2: Be strategic. The secret to finding lasting love begins with dating. And your dating approach must be strategic. For example, in many businesses, the objective is to provide certain services in an exchange for profit. Apply a similar approach to your love life. When you meet someone, ask yourself, how is having a love relationship with this person going to improve my life or give me what it is that I hope to gain?

Secret 3: Have a powerful incentive. People today are very cynical. They are used to being "sold to" and are looking for authenticity. Bring something to the table that will give your love interest a reason to commit to a long-term love relationship with you. People for the most part respond very well to incentives. I cannot stress this enough. While I do not wish to preach, to illustrate how critical incentives are in causing people to act, millions of people live certain ways in the hopes that upon death, they will inherit mansions in heaven. If God sees fit to offer the inheritance of mansions as an incentive to cause people to act, can you understand why you cannot do without offering an incentive?

Secret 4: Seek confirmation. This next step is essential. Avoid another disappointment by seeking confirmation at the start that the two of you belong with each other. Without confirmation, if you encounter problems at the beginning of the relationship, you might leave. On the other hand, if you receive confirmation that the two of you belong together, you are likely to exercise the required patience. You can receive confirmation by taking the time to ponder the two of you and allow the answer to be revealed to you.

Secret 5: Nurture the relationship. It is very important to understand that no love relationship offers 100% of what the two people in it want. Often, what is missing can be added. For example, if your partner has no cooking skills, the two of you can learn how to cook together. Take up an evening cooking course. This can be loads of fun, and it beats finding fault in your partner because they don't know the difference between pan seared and sauté.

Secret 6: Be emotionally available. Be there for each other. Be each others number one best friend, and remember that women love to be part of what their men like. For example, if you, the man, like a certain sport, include your partner in some way. Celebrate one anothers successes, and at the end of a day when everything has gone terribly wrong, provide a shoulder to cry on. Men in particular must learn this simple secret. When your partner has a problem and wants to talk, don't prevent her by saying she will be okay. Now she will not be okay. Stop what you are doing and listen. She just wants to vent or cry and she will be fine.

Secret 7: Have an exit strategy. We all go into relationships hoping we'll find what we're looking for-mostly happiness. Sometimes we inadvertently cause our relationship or marriage to end. My advice to you is simple in this regard. Have an exit strategy in advance: a way to exit with dignity and grace. The experts suggest that each of you should have your own financial identity. Then, if your companion or spouse decides to leave, you are financially prepared to support yourself.

In my experience, if men and women can follow just these seven simple steps, their love relationship will blossom.








Ernest Quansah has more than 15 years' experience as a relationship counsellor and is the author of How to Identify Your Soulmate as well as Dos and Don'ts of Relationships. He has successfully coached many single men and women to find dates leading to successful marriages. Website: http://www.dosanddontsofrelationships.com


Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Lasting Loving Relationships Require Commitment From Both Partners


Dating and marriage are different than they were for our parents and in modern society more than half of all marriages fail. The idea of commitment is scary for many people and it seems that a lot of people just quit trying when things start getting tough in their relationship. Instead of taking time and getting to know each other on a deeper level, we quit the relationship at the first sign of discontent and look for another. In order to enjoy a lasting loving relationship you are going to have to commit to its success.

It does not matter if you are dating or married, relationships take work from both partners to succeed. There will be disagreements but if you are committed to your partner it is possible to have a lasting loving relationship. There are many marriages that survive the test of time but unfortunately there are more that do not.

What makes a relationship last? It is not a single factor but all the factors can be summed up in one word, commitment. These couples decided to love each other through thick and thin. They realize the value of a true friend and confidant, someone that knows you and keeps your secrets, someone that loves you in spite of your bad or annoying habits. There is a great joy and peace that comes from knowing that you are loved for who you truly are. It is the relationship one shares with family, and that is exactly what a person becomes when two families are joined together in holy matrimony.

Dating is like marriage because, you are bonding and introducing family members into the relationship, still creating a new relationship. Often partners in a long term relationship maintain contact with an ex partners family after a break up, because they have created bonds with these people that are separate from the one you shared.

No matter how long any relationship lasts each partner makes a contribution. The intent and amount of commitment determines the outcome of the relationship. But both partners must be determined to succeed.

The first few weeks and months of a relationship are new and exciting. In the early stages of getting to know each other we will often overlook little things that would normally bother us. We smile when we see each other and tend to offer a lot of compliments. Then we become comfortable and don't even ask each other how things are going, we don't smile and don't spend as much time together.

In order to enjoy a lasting loving relationship you need to commit yourself to its success and work every day to maintain and protect it.








Belinda Nelson is a free lance copywriter who enjoys writing on a variety of subjects. Each article is carefully researched and put together for the benefit of the reader. You are invited to find out more and leave your own comment about her findings on the subject of lasting relationships by visiting: http://www.411flirt.com/


Monday, April 4, 2011

Love Relationships Advice - Tips to Get You Through the Difficult Moments


Love relationships advice is most useful when two people fall in love. It is great that two people could easily fall in love and come together as a couple and begin living life intimately. Unfortunately, not every couple is able to maintain this lovely life together because they might not be aware of the problems relationships can have.

The world is better connected now than what it used to, particularly with the Internet connecting people from one end of the world to the other end. There are online dating sites, forums for people with common interests, websites to advertise and inform you of blind date venues. Thus, searching for someone who shares your feelings with you and falls in love with you would be easier now compared to last time.

In the beginning, you and your lover would feel that your relationship is like a dream come true, where your lover is perfect and your life is finally completed. However, life is never smooth, and at certain points in your life, you two would soon find difficulties and flaws in your relationship. It would only be a matter of time before things become heated.

Here are a number of things you could look out for in a relationship. These are some of the more common problems that couples could face in a relationship, regardless how long they have been together. They are rather generic, but the idea of how you could conflict with your lover is the important point.

You might expect too much out of your relationship. You might believe that nothing could ever go wrong in your relationship because you two are always in agreement, or you two have learned how to give and take. After some time of being together, you two might actually find more flaws in each other that you were not expecting. Or there might be some commitment you had expected from your partner but finds that your partner could no longer keep up. This takes you quite by surprise and you might be unprepared to face it, resulting in emotions that you may not know how to deal with yet, or need time to deal with before facing your loved one again. You need to be mentally prepared to come upon anything that might go wrong in your relationship.

The next is the inability to communicate properly with each other. You might have won your lover's heart back then with words of seduction and the promise of intimate passion, and your lover understood what you meant. In a relationship, where things involve more than just passionate feelings for each other, the words you two use would be different and there could be a need to relearn and understand each other all over again. This is when you two need to communicate to each other properly and clearly state what you two want in your relationship.

Sexual desires need to be better understood. It is part of the human instinct to want to breed, and both the man and the woman would have a certain degree of desire. However, that degree would differ for each of them. Men are known to have a higher sexual drive, where making love every night becomes something out of habit. For women, they would require a more intimate setting and more appropriate environment before they would consider making love. Men tend to mate for the purpose of fulfilling their bodily desires, while women mate for the purpose of improving their souls. This is where a conflict could occur.

This is also one of the times when you two need to understand that making love is only one feature in a relationship. The coupling of people has unfortunately been stereotyped to be an occurrence for a man and a woman to make love. A relationship is actually made up of more than just sex. Think about why you love your spouse and what you want to do in your relationship together and you would slowly find the other things that make up your relationship. One of the most significant feature of a relationship is the love and support your lover gives you in your life.

Learning to make a relationship stay long also displays your passion and interest in it, and with effort from you and your partner, making your relationship work and stay long would become a most delightful outcome.








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Love Relationships and Secret Numbers


As love cries out to quench our soul,
To fill our heart and make us whole,
Within our names the secret slumbers.
Behold! The answer lies within our numbers!

Love. Ah, love! How profound. How grand. How majestic and magnetic. Arguably, nothing in the history of man has captivated him more than love. It is the elixir that quenches both heart, mind and soul, and yet its secrets remain hidden, or do they?

With the rise of broken marriages, broken homes, unhappy children separated from the loving embrace of both a mother and father, as well as an endless stream of individuals experiencing ephemeral and empty relationships, it is all too apparent that the process of love and the choosing of a life partner need overhauling. There is far too much pain, too many tears, too much heartache and heartbreak to maintain the current direction of generating fulfilling love matches. The method for creating relationships needs to be revolutionized and that revolution is centered, as remarkably as it may seem, in the birth names and birth dates of each of us.

Numbers rule the universe said the famed mathematician and scientist Pythagoras. Because numbers rule the universe, they rule everything in it including love and relationships. The key numbers of each individual's name and birth date contain the secrets to love for the individual. When those numbers are matched correctly to another person's numbers, a strong, fulfilling, and enduring relationship can be achieved. Divorces will be fewer, as will broken homes, broken relationships, broken hearts, heartbroken children and broken lives.

For example, let's say that person 'A' has a 5 Lifepath. The Lifepath is determined from the birthdate and can be likened to the script of a person's life. Now we'll assume that person 'B' has a 4 Lifepath. If these two people attempted to create a relationship, would each of them find fulfillment through the other's life script and thereby enhance the possibility of them having a meaningful relationship? The answer is probably not. The numbers 4 and 5 are diametrically opposed. The 4 is conventional; the 5 is unconventional. The 4 loves stability; the 5 loves motion. The 4 is practical; the 5 is adventurous. The 4 doesn't like change; the 5 loves change. See the problem?

Now let's assume that the 4 and 5 didn't govern their Lifepaths but their Expressions. The Expression is derived from a person's name and describes the individual as a whole. With one person being a 4 and the other person being a 5, the chances of them finding harmony together are practically nil. Again, the same problem arises except the Expression is the person while the Lifepath is the script of the person's life. Thus, the Expression carries greater weight. The 4 versus 5 conflict is thus intensified when it's in the Expressions [the names] rather than the Lifepaths [the birth dates] of the people involved. This combination would not bode well for a happy couple nor a fulfilling relationship. The 4 would hold the 5 back, smothering his adventurous nature, while the 5's desire to move, change and experience life would cause the root-loving 4 a great deal of stress.

Although there are many factors in a numerology chart that determine the compatibility of a relationship, this simple example of the 4 versus 5 illustrates that if these two people were to form a committed bond, their Lifepaths and/or Expressions would potentially create tension because of the inherent opposition and confliction between the 4 and 5. It is therefore important that people look beyond the superficial attributes of a potential partner such as wealth, power, possessions, celebrity and looks to the deeper energies comprising their lives and destinies as determined from the numbers in their names and birth dates.

Summary Notes
1. Numbers rule the universe.
2. Our personal numbers are contained within our birth name and birth date.
3. Each of our numbers contains the secrets to love.
4. Loving relationships are created when the key numbers of two individuals match harmoniously.








~finis
Copyright Richard Andrew King
All rights reserved.

Richard Andrew King, whose website is http://richardking.net is a numerologist, martial artist, author and public speaker residing in Southern California. For knowledge regarding love, attraction and relationships, read The 5 Minute Lover: Discovering the Secrets of Your Life, Loves and Relationships in 5 Minutes or learn love's secrets at http://www.yourlovenumbers.com. Other works by King include The King's Book of Numerology, Volume I: Foundations & Fundamentals; The King's Book of Numerology II: Forecasting - Part I; 99 Poems of the Spirit; Messages from the Masters - Timeless Truths for Spiritual Seekers; Blueprint of a Princess: Diana Frances Spencer - Queen of Hearts; The Black Belt Book of Life: Secrets of a Martial Arts Master; The Age of the Female - Volumes I and II. A complete listing of King's works including his books, audio books, home study courses and CDs is available on his website and at Amazon.com. King is available for speaking engagements, workshops and personal appearances.


Monday, March 21, 2011

Numerology Love Relationships for Life Path (2) - Cooperators Need Love Too


If your date of birth numbers reduce to a (2), you are on Numerology's Path of the Cooperator. If you're on this Life Path, you can know how your relationships will work out depending on your partners Life Path. Will fate give you a lasting and rewarding relationship?

Life Path Calculation

Your Life Path is your primary number in Numerology; equivalent to your Sun sign in Astrology. You calculate it by adding together all the digits of your full date of birth, and then reducing the sum by fadic addition. Former president Bill Clinton is an example of a Life Path (2), his birth date of August 19th, 1946, reduces to a two when we sum all the digits as is shown below:

Bill Clinton's Life Path = (08 + 19 + 1946) = (1973) = (1 + 9 + 7 + 3) = (20) = (2)

His wife, senator Hillary Clinton was born on October 26th, 1947, so her Life Path number is a (3) as is shown below.

Hillary Clinton's Life Path = (10 + 26 + 1947) = (1983) = (1 + 9 + 8 + 3) = (21) = (3)

Determining Their Compatibility

Now, to see how a love relationship will work out for a person on Life Path (2), such as Bill Clinton, we look in the table below using their partner's Life Path. In the case of Bill and Hillary Clinton, we check the entry for Life Path (3) to see how things work out.

Note that any of these relationships can work; but the characters and needs of the two people will differ, depending on the match you get.

Partner LP (1)

Both partners need to work on being more open with each other, and expressing their feelings. You must resist the tendency to to become too emotional when dealing with your partner.

Partner LP (2)

Both partners are very sensitive and can have their feelings hurt by an unkind word or too much teasing. You both need to work on being more sensitive of each others feelings, and learning to turn the other cheek for the sake of your happiness.

Partner LP (3)

You are the emotional rock of this relationship, while your partner helps you learn to not take life too seriously. This is a good match, because you tend to compliment each other well.

Partner LP (4)

Both of you tend to be romantics at heart. If you both work at keeping that spark of original courtship alive, your relationship will prosper and bring you happiness.

Partner LP (5)

Your partner highly values the sensitivity you bring to your relationship. In turn, they help make you more spontaneous in your dealings with people.

Partner LP (6)

Both you and your partner hate to argue with each other. If you can learn that the occasional disagreement does no harm, and can help clear the air between you, this relationship can become very strong indeed.

Partner LP (7)

Both you and your partner are highly sensitive. If you can learn to direct this quality toward sensing each other's needs, then this can be a very good relationship.

Partner LP (8)

Your partner's rational approach to life will help you to be more confident in dealing with both your partner, and with other people. This is a very beneficial relationship for you. Try to show appreciation to your partner, they get less from this pairing than you do.

Partner LP (9)

Both you and your partner are very sensitive and loyal to each other. Try to remember that going overboard in trying to please each other all the time has it's own drawbacks. Moderation is the key to making this work.








Keith Abbott is the developer and owner of 'Numerology 4 You' where you can order your own Numerology reading, including your complete Lucky Days calendar. Visit him on the web today at http://www.numerology4you.com


Sunday, March 20, 2011

Numerology Love Relationships for Life Path (4) - Builders Need Love Too


If your date of birth gives numbers which reduce to a (4), you're on Numerology's Path of the Builder. If this is your Life Path, you can learn how your relationships will work if you know your partners Life Path. Are you fated to have a rewarding, long-lasting relationship?

Life Path Calculation

Your Life Path is your primary number in Numerology; equivalent to your Sun sign in Astrology. You calculate it by summing the digits of your full date of birth, and then reducing this number by fadic addition. Television personality Opera Winfrey is a Life Path (22) which we reduce further to a (4) for purposes of figuring her compatibility. Her birth date of January 29th, 1954 gives the calculation shown below.

Oprah Winfrey's Life Path = (1 + 29 + 1954) = (1984) = (22) = (4)

Her life partner, businessman Stedman Grahm was born on March 6th, 1951, so his Life Path number is a (7). I've shown his calculation below as well.

Stedman Grahm's Life Path = (03 + 6 + 1951) = (1960) = (16) = (7)

Determining Their Compatibility

Now, to see how a Life Path (4) person's Love relationship will go, such as Oprah Winfrey's; we take their partner's Life Path number and look at the corresponding entry below.

Note that any of these relationships can work quite well, but the needs and character traits of the partners will differ, depending on the particular match.

Partner LP (1)

You will help keep your partner's feet on the ground, making this a very stable relationship for both of you.

Partner LP (2)

Both of you are true romantics at heart. It's your mutual effort to keep the courtship fresh and alive that keeps your relationship strong from high point to high point.

Partner LP (3)

You both like to have fun, and your partnership will grow your happiness together, provided that you can learn to tolerate your partner's tendency to be disorganized in their life.

Partner LP (4)

You are both predictable and reliable in your natures, so you will quickly learn what to expect from one another in life. Both of you need to try and make the extra effort to add some variety to your life; it's way too easy for this pairing to fall in a rut.

Partner LP (5)

Your partner is often very quick to make decisions; too quick for your comfort. They need take into account your dislike to express your feelings openly, before they can be comfortable with you in a long term relationship. A little bit of adapting by both of you is called for.

Partner LP (6)

You will need time in this relationship to develop real trust with your partner. Both of you have a reluctance to display your affections too much. Be patient with each other, and this relationship can truly bloom.

Partner LP (7)

Both you and your partner need a long time to form a lasting bond with each other. However, if you are both patient, you will reap a long, stable, and happy relationship.

Partner LP (8)

This relationship is literally filled with competition. Each of you needs to learn to give a little, and let your partner score on you for things to go smoothly. Other people have real trouble understanding how your relationship can work; it doesn't look normal to them.

Partner LP (9)

This is a mating of strong personalities. Your relationship is many things, but never boring. You both need to learn not to assess blame to each other, when things don't go smoothly. Your love for each other runs deep, despite outward signs to the contrary.








Keith Abbott is the developer and owner of 'Numerology 4 You' where you can order your own Numerology reading, including your complete Lucky Days calendar. Visit him on the web today at http://www.numerology4you.com


Numerology Love Relationships For Life Path (5) - Sellers Need Love Too


If your date of birth gives numbers which reduce to (5) when using fadic addition, you're on Numerology's Path of the Seller. If this is your Life Path, you can find out how your relationships will work if you know your partners Life Path. Are you fated to have a long-lasting, rewarding relationship?

Life Path Calculation

Your Life Path is your primary number in Numerology; equivalent to your Sun sign in Astrology. You calculate it by summing all the digits of your full date of birth, and then reducing the sum by fadic addition. Actress Angelina Jolie has a Life Path number of (5). Her date of birth of June 4th, 1975 yields the calculation shown below.

Angelina Jolie's Life Path = (6 + 04 + 1975) = (1985) = (23) = (5)

Her current partner is Actor Brad Pitt, who was born on December 18th, 1963. His Life Path number is (4). I've shown his calculation below as well.

Brad Pitt's Life Path = (12 + 18 + 1963) = (1993) = (22) = (4)

Determining Their Compatibility

To see how a Life Path (5) person's Love relationship will fair, like Angelina Jolie's; we look at the corresponding entry for their partner's Life Path as shown below.

Please note, and of these relationships will work, but the needs and character traits of the partners will differ, depending on their particular match.

Partner LP (1)

Both you and your partner are very independent and outgoing personalities. However, your partner has a pressing need for his or her own space; their own territory at home to use as a retreat when necessary. Give them this space, and your relationship will prosper.

Partner LP (2)

You highly value your partners sensitivity to the people and places around you. Work at helping your partner become more spontaneous in life. They will thank you for it.

Partner LP (3)

You need to work on being more open with your partner than your nature would normally call for. Do this, and you will both benefit. Complete honesty and solid mutual trust in each other is the goal in your relationship.

Partner LP (4)

You are often very quick to make decisions; too quick for your partner's comfort. You need to take into account your partner's reluctance to show their emotions before you can feel good about a long term relationship with them. You both need to curb your expectations in order to make your relationship really work.

Partner LP (5)

Both of you love the unexpected in life. To make this relationship work for you, both of you need to come up with ways to add some surprises to your time together. Don't let too much routine make your relationship dull and unattractive.

Partner LP (6)

You need to work on opening up to your partner, and fight against your tendency to hide your true feelings. Your partner is a master at this, and can help you if you ask them. Real openness will benefit your relationship enormously.

Partner LP (7)

Both of you and your partner have trouble at facing reality when life doesn't go your way. Each of you must support the other in facing their problems. With a little work you can turn this into a strength given time.

Partner LP (8)

Your partner is far more reserved in most things in life than you are. But, with your encouragement and support, they can develop more confidence, and the sensual side of their personality will bloom.

Partner LP (9)

Your partner has a strong spiritual side which you find attractive. Don't let your differences about things which are not really important come between you. Learn to respect each other's opinions and not fight over them.








Keith Abbott is the developer and owner of 'Numerology 4 You' where you can order your own Numerology reading, including your complete Lucky Days calendar. Visit him on the web today at http://www.numerology4you.com


Saturday, March 19, 2011

Numerology Love Relationships for Life Path (6) - Teachers Need Love too


If your date of birth gives you numbers which reduce to a (6) when using fadic addition, you're on Numerology's Life Path of the Teacher. If this is your Path, you can find out how your relationships will work out, provided you know your partners Life Path number. Are you fated to have a long-lasting, rewarding relationship?

Life Path Calculation

Your Life Path is your primary number in Numerology; equivalent to your Sun sign in Astrology. You calculate it by summing all the digits of your full date of birth, and then reducing the sum using fadic addition. President George W. Bush has a Life Path number of (6). His date of birth is July 6th, 1946 which in turn gives us the calculation below.

George W, Bush's Life Path = (7 + 6 + 1946) = (1959) = (24) = (6)

His wife, first lady Laura Bush, was born on November 4th, 1946, so her Life Path number is (8), as shown below:

Laura Bush's Life Path = (11 + 04 + 1946) = (1961) = (17) = (8)

Determining Their Compatibility

To see how a Life Path (6) person's Love relationship will fair, like George W Bush's; we must look at the corresponding entry for their partner's Life Path.

Please note, all of these relationships can work, but the needs and character traits of the partners will differ.

Partner LP (1)

Opposites tend to attract, and that's what will bring life to your long term relationship. Your partner will probably need some coaxing to take the step and put your relationship on a permanent basis.

Partner LP (2)

You and your partner both hate to argue. However, to make this relationship grow and prosper, you need to accept that the occasional disagreement will do no harm, and will tend to clear the air between you.

Partner LP (3)

You are generally good about your finances and keeping to a budget, which will tend to balance your partner's tendency to be a bit of a spendthrift at times. Don't let your outlook on money become a bone of contention between you, and all will be well.

Partner LP (4)

You and your partner need to be very patient with each other. While you tend to be reserved and reluctant to display your affection, your partner needs a lot of time to develop trust in you. Don't rush things, and all will be well.

Partner LP (5)

Your partner will discover that learning to open up to you and not conceal their true feelings will help your relationship prosper. You tend to be very open with your true feelings, which may confuse them at first.

Partner LP (6)

You and your partner are both at ease in a relationship; romance takes root and grows quickly here. However, you both need to stay grounded and not let the practical things in life get away from you if this partnership is to last for a long time.

Partner LP (7)

You tend to look at the bright side of life and stay upbeat. You don't let the little bumps in the road get to you as easily as your partner does. Work on helping them overcome their anxieties about day to day living and your relationship will grow strong.

Partner LP (8)

Your relationship makes a good partnership because you compliment each other. You help your partner learn to not take things too seriously; while they help you to be more practical. This is a good combination.

Partner LP (9)

This can be a very trying relationship. Your partner tends to set extremely high standards on what they expect from a relationship. They also find it difficult to open up and share their feelings with you. It will take all your warmth and understanding to ease their fears and make this relationship grow.








Keith Abbott is the developer and owner of 'Numerology 4 You' where you can order your own Numerology reading, including your complete Lucky Days calendar. Visit him on the web today at http://www.numerology4you.com


Thursday, March 17, 2011

Relationship Advice - The Issue of Sincerity in Love Relationships


Usually we see guys using sincerity to 'buy' love from a girl, to win the heart of the girl, or a girl persuades her boyfriend that she is very sincere in doing things for him, and demands that her boyfriend show her the same amount of love and appreciation back.

Somehow I do not get it; if we are truly sincere in showing love and appreciation to others, why are we expecting anything back in return?

This reduces sincerity to a loan that demands repayment in future for every good thing that one has received, instead of a beautiful free will gift that it once ever was.

And sincerity has ever since been a source of conflict in many couples' relationship. Girlfriends yell at their boyfriend, saying that with all the love, appreciation and sincerity that they give to their boyfriend, they demand why is their love not reciprocated in return in the same manner and form.

Boyfriends do the similar things by saying telling a girl that he is sincere to change himself, to prove himself as a better guy, and yet he fails to deliver at the end.

Let us be honest with ourselves. Sincerity should never be a currency, or it will always become a source of conflict. That is because we usually use what we contribute to the relationship as a major reason to state our stand.

However in order to minimize conflict with your loved ones, let not what you gave them freely to be treated as a loan.

Otherwise when both parties are demanding standards of each other, it results to major heartaches and a broken relationship instead of improving the love relationship between each other.








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Sunday, March 13, 2011

How to Use the Law of Attraction in Loving Relationships


Law of Attraction and Love and Family. Whilst there are three areas in life that are important to people - health, wealth and love - it is usually the latter two that they are most focused on - trying to earn more money or finding the love of their life or increasing the love and prosperity for their loved ones. When it comes to love and family, how does the law of attraction fit in - can it help to create a loving relationship and even mend broken ones?

Of course it can! Everyone is sending out energy, emotional vibrations, at an unconscious level. And since like energies attract more of the same, if you begin to send out positive energy they will respond in the same way. After an argument, it doesn't matter who is the first to say sorry and begin doing good things for the other (sending out positive energy) for the other to soon have no choice but to do the same - they have no choice - they will not be able to help themselves.

If we look at the family situation we'll find that there are already bonds in play that can help to make the relationship better than ever before. We all know that it is not uncommon for families who share the same space to compete over the bathroom, for example, or for siblings to argue about computer games, TV - the usual domestics!

But, the bottom line is that there is usually an element of love in the family, even at the root of what seem impossible relationship problems. Where do you start? I've just said that there is always an element of love in the family, right? Then that is where you begin. For some, however, the disharmony may have been going on for some time and so the subconscious is sending out all the wrong emotional responses (because over time it's been conditioned to act that way). Ok, you're going to fix this problem and mend the relationship - but first, you have to be absolutely convinced that you want to do this, because the first person you have to start with, is YOU! You have to convince your own subconscious first, before you have a chance with anyone else.

Lip service is not enough - you really have to WANT things to change, right to the very emotional foundation of your being. You have to be 100% committed to change. First thing to do is to forget all the bad stuff - stop focusing on what they did that drove you up the wall, round the bend - however you want to put it - stop focusing on it right now. Why? The law of attraction! If you still harbor thoughts about the things they did to irritate you, what are you focusing on? Being irritated! Guess what? You are sending out a signal to your subconscious genie that reads "irritation" - the genie responds with "your wish is my command" and hey presto, you get more irritation!

LET GO! Let go of all the things that irritated you. You have to change the frequency of your emotional vibrations that your subconscious is sending out to the universe. You have to switch from negative to positive - it's as simple as that. Simply let go of all the focus on their faults - their habits that irritated you to such a degree that things got to where they are now. Focus on what they do (or used to do) that made you feel happy. Go look at some happy photos - even check out your wedding pictures (as long as they are happy ones!) Focus on the happy times you shared. Do you remember the things you used to do for them that made THEM happy? Go do them all over again. When you see them, think of the happy times you have spent with them - use your own reservoir of happy memories to change the signal your subconscious has been sending out. In no time, if you put yourself 100% into this, you will find yourself in a much happier relationship than you could have dreamed of.

Ok, let's take a look at trying to attract the love of your life INTO your life. The principle is much the same, only you haven't met them yet (or maybe you have but haven't noticed them). And remember, they are also looking for you! The important thing here is to be very specific when you give your subconscious genie your wish. What exactly are you looking for in a relationship?

As I have said, they are also looking for you, so in these terms, forget about political or social status for a moment - this is the love of your life, right? If you start putting limits and restricting choice, you are not really sending out the right signal! Be OPEN! Or you may miss the most wonderful relationship you could ever have dreamed of. Think of values and the type of relationship you want. Think of their personality and how they treat others - yes, think about their likes and dislikes - think about everything that you want in your future dream relationship. Then believe 100% that you are going to find this person.

If you find this difficult, just remind yourself that every day, millions of men and women around the world are creating a new life with the person of their dreams. You are no different from them - you have a right to be happy too. It happens every day. You can affirm this to yourself, each day, if it helps. Now comes the hard bit. You have to be patient. Your genie certainly does grant your wish, but, not always in the timescale that you are thinking in. Believe that it will happen, and it will. Just be patient and give it time.

Ok... you're not so patient. What happens? You date the next person that comes along, just to "fill in time" and hey, guess what, your life gets full of distractions that you would not even recognize the person of your dreams if they walked in the room. You are sending out all the wrong vibrations. Your focus is on your new date and not the love of your life. Remember, he or she is also looking for you! You are both looking for each other on a subconscious level - but yours is now sending out the wrong vibrations. You were so busy keeping yourself occupied with your new date, that you missed out on the opportunity to meet your dream lover, and they walked away without even a hello or goodbye because you didn't know they were there.

Once you set a goal, be patient. Keep faith in your subconscious genie that they will deliver. Keep those positive vibrations working and the person of your dreams is likely to find you when you least expect it! Stay focused on your dreams - the law of attraction will bring them to you!








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Saturday, March 12, 2011

Lasting Loving Relationships - Can You Really Have One Or Should You Settle For Less?


Okay Boys! You can get all the paid for or free flirting advice you can stomach, but ya better be careful about what you go after. We all know that men and women are different but if you ask a woman she will tell you she has men figured out. There are very few men that will say the same about women. Flirting and dating is all well and good but every time you start a conversation with a woman you are starting a relationship. It will be up to you where the relationship goes from there.

There have been scientific studies done about why a person does what they do, and they have found answers about how relationships work too. What attracts a certain type of man or woman for one person can be totally different from one person to the next.

What makes a person stay in an unfulfilling relationship or an abusive one?

Unfortunately, children have no say in these matters between partners and no control over how they must suffer through their parent's choices. If you find yourself in a relationship with a single parent please, act responsibly. It does not matter how dysfunctional the parent is, they can do no wrong in the eyes of their children. If you find yourself involved with a single parent and you know the relationship will not be long term be careful of the bond you create with the children..

As an adult you do have choices and you might need to take a step back and a hard look at what is happening in your life. It is possible to decide whether a date is worth more than one night during the first conversation, you just need to ask the right questions and let her do a little talking.

According to the results of various studies there are a few different types of women, fortunately for you, they are easy to separate quickly. Believe me there are some women you do not want to get involved with at any cost no matter how beautiful they are.

Men and women get into a relationship and settle for less than they need. They are in a rush to be married and think they can work through things, live without others or hope to be able to change their partner. These types of relationships usually end in heartache for someone involved.

If you are truly looking for a long lasting loving relationship, you need to recognize it when it slaps you in the face. Know what you want and do not be intimidated by an overpowering whining woman! Do not tell her what she wants to hear just to keep her from crying or throwing a tantrum, be honest and say what you feel.

Prioritize the things you must get from your relationship and the things that you can't tolerate. You may think you can be happy living with some things you can't tolerate or doing without the things you need but you will quickly discover that is not true.








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Long Lasting Love Relationships


Dating and establishing love relationships can be compared to choosing a vehicle. You pick out the make, model, year, color and features that you believe are best for you. After driving your vehicle for a couple of months, you realize that perhaps you should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the leather seats would have been better, or on hot sunny days, the sunroof would have been nice. However, it is now too late so you choose to keep your car and accept the decision you made. It is the same for a marriage or couple relationship. Not everything will be perfect and there will be major obstacles to overcome but you have made your decision and now you choose to make it work no matter which marriage troubles you are experiencing.

Dating and marriage is different than it was thirty years ago. Today, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another. Just thinking about that makes "commitments" and marriage vows seem scary. It seems that when relationships are faced with challenges, people quit trying. Dating is more like a marathon, trying to date as many people as possible, instead of taking time to get to know someone on a deeper level. For married couples, divorce is not biased. Whether married for thirty years or eight months, the outcome can be the same.

The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing. The "spark" has gone, leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.

However, even though the odds are not very good, it has been proven by many people that healthy and long-lasting relationships are definitely possible. Look at Paul Newman and Joanne Woodard, Danny Devito and Rhea Perlman, or Nancy and Ronald Regan. What secrets do and did they possess? The answer is: work hard at the relationship. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate rather than relying on the "warm and fuzzy" feelings, which everyone knows will fade. By making love a choice, you are making a decision that even in the bad times, you stick it out.

There are hundreds of things you can do to build, strengthen, and enhance your relationship. You can find lots of relationship self help resources online. Remember, little steps taken every day will add up to big successes.








Terje Brooks Ellingsen is a writer and internet publisher. He runs the website 1st-Self_Improvement.net. Terje is a Sociologist who enjoys contributing to the personal growth and happiness of others. He tries to accomplish this by writing about personal development issues from his own experience and knowledge. For example, self help resources and how to enhance your relationship.


Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Love Relationships and Secret Numbers


As love cries out to quench our soul,
To fill our heart and make us whole,
Within our names the secret slumbers.
Behold! The answer lies within our numbers!

Love. Ah, love! How profound. How grand. How majestic and magnetic. Arguably, nothing in the history of man has captivated him more than love. It is the elixir that quenches both heart, mind and soul, and yet its secrets remain hidden, or do they?

With the rise of broken marriages, broken homes, unhappy children separated from the loving embrace of both a mother and father, as well as an endless stream of individuals experiencing ephemeral and empty relationships, it is all too apparent that the process of love and the choosing of a life partner need overhauling. There is far too much pain, too many tears, too much heartache and heartbreak to maintain the current direction of generating fulfilling love matches. The method for creating relationships needs to be revolutionized and that revolution is centered, as remarkably as it may seem, in the birth names and birth dates of each of us.

Numbers rule the universe said the famed mathematician and scientist Pythagoras. Because numbers rule the universe, they rule everything in it including love and relationships. The key numbers of each individual's name and birth date contain the secrets to love for the individual. When those numbers are matched correctly to another person's numbers, a strong, fulfilling, and enduring relationship can be achieved. Divorces will be fewer, as will broken homes, broken relationships, broken hearts, heartbroken children and broken lives.

For example, let's say that person 'A' has a 5 Lifepath. The Lifepath is determined from the birthdate and can be likened to the script of a person's life. Now we'll assume that person 'B' has a 4 Lifepath. If these two people attempted to create a relationship, would each of them find fulfillment through the other's life script and thereby enhance the possibility of them having a meaningful relationship? The answer is probably not. The numbers 4 and 5 are diametrically opposed. The 4 is conventional; the 5 is unconventional. The 4 loves stability; the 5 loves motion. The 4 is practical; the 5 is adventurous. The 4 doesn't like change; the 5 loves change. See the problem?

Now let's assume that the 4 and 5 didn't govern their Lifepaths but their Expressions. The Expression is derived from a person's name and describes the individual as a whole. With one person being a 4 and the other person being a 5, the chances of them finding harmony together are practically nil. Again, the same problem arises except the Expression is the person while the Lifepath is the script of the person's life. Thus, the Expression carries greater weight. The 4 versus 5 conflict is thus intensified when it's in the Expressions [the names] rather than the Lifepaths [the birth dates] of the people involved. This combination would not bode well for a happy couple nor a fulfilling relationship. The 4 would hold the 5 back, smothering his adventurous nature, while the 5's desire to move, change and experience life would cause the root-loving 4 a great deal of stress.

Although there are many factors in a numerology chart that determine the compatibility of a relationship, this simple example of the 4 versus 5 illustrates that if these two people were to form a committed bond, their Lifepaths and/or Expressions would potentially create tension because of the inherent opposition and confliction between the 4 and 5. It is therefore important that people look beyond the superficial attributes of a potential partner such as wealth, power, possessions, celebrity and looks to the deeper energies comprising their lives and destinies as determined from the numbers in their names and birth dates.

Summary Notes
1. Numbers rule the universe.
2. Our personal numbers are contained within our birth name and birth date.
3. Each of our numbers contains the secrets to love.
4. Loving relationships are created when the key numbers of two individuals match harmoniously.








~finis
Copyright Richard Andrew King
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Richard Andrew King, whose website is http://richardking.net is a numerologist, martial artist, author and public speaker residing in Southern California. For knowledge regarding love, attraction and relationships, read The 5 Minute Lover: Discovering the Secrets of Your Life, Loves and Relationships in 5 Minutes or learn love's secrets at http://www.yourlovenumbers.com. Other works by King include The King's Book of Numerology, Volume I: Foundations & Fundamentals; The King's Book of Numerology II: Forecasting - Part I; 99 Poems of the Spirit; Messages from the Masters - Timeless Truths for Spiritual Seekers; Blueprint of a Princess: Diana Frances Spencer - Queen of Hearts; The Black Belt Book of Life: Secrets of a Martial Arts Master; The Age of the Female - Volumes I and II. A complete listing of King's works including his books, audio books, home study courses and CDs is available on his website and at Amazon.com. King is available for speaking engagements, workshops and personal appearances.


Monday, March 7, 2011

Online Relationships - Dating Advice


When you feel like nobody who lives near you will do when it comes to dating, the good news is that there is a whole world of people out there waiting to meet you! Online dating has become very popular because it takes the stress out of dating and makes it easy to meet people from all over the world. Below you will find some online relationship dating advice that will help you get started.

The first piece of online relationship dating advice is to join several dating sites. Many of them are free and by joining several of them you will have access to a wider variety of people who may share your interests.

Fill out your profile thoroughly. Make sure to fill in all of your interests as well as your likes and dislikes when it comes to the opposite sex. This will help you ensure that you are only attracting the right type of people to your profile, and not people that you wouldn't normally date. Be honest in your profile.

When talking to people, it is important that you be yourself. You don't want to give someone the wrong impression in case you do end up having feelings with this person and wanting to meet face to face. Don't lie about your age, gender, job, appearance, or anything else when you are dating online.

Ask plenty of questions to the people you speak with. This is the only way you will get to know them properly, so make sure that you ask all of the questions that really matter to you in a relationship.

Online relationship dating advice doesn't end here, but this should be a good beginning of what you should be doing when you are meeting people on the Internet. Keep an open mind and someone you can love is sure to come along.








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Sunday, March 6, 2011

Smart Dating Tips For Women - How To Deal Effectively With Jealousy In Romantic Love Relationships


Love is not a competitive sport. However, many people today sometimes approach it as if it were. A common result of this kind of misguided thinking is the negative fear-based emotion of jealousy.

Jealousy thrives in a competitive environment for gaining attention and feeds some people's starving emotional needs for increased recognition and higher self-esteem. But the major downside is that jealousy triggers unforgettable moments of fear, distrust, and anger which accumulate and inevitably destroy the foundation of loving relationships.

If you recognize the early signs of jealousy, here are several smart things to do in order to prevent it from ruining the relationships that you treasure:

? Gauge how committed you are to the relationship in order to solve this: If you are committed to the relationship and want love to grow, then you possess the necessary ability to find a solution. But if you don't care enough or have the mistaken belief that jealousy is a good thing overall, then your relationship is doomed right from the start.

? Understand the benefits for the person who is jealous: The jealous person begins to learn how to build true self-esteem by recognizing the good in them and eliminating the bad. It teaches them how to focus on love and not on fear.

? Realize the benefits for the person who is triggering the jealousy: The person triggering the jealousy raises their awareness about themselves (unintentional triggers in their language) and learns to communicate their increased level of commitment to the relationship by helping the other person through their jealousy issues.

? Recognize that each person is part of the problem: The jealous person is dealing with a starving human need - self-esteem and the question of "Am I good enough?" On the other hand, the person who is the object of the jealousy is either: 1) Unaware of how they are triggering the jealousy, 2) Doesn't care enough about causing it, or 3) Feels there is a benefit to making the other person jealous (their own issues of low self-esteem or the unenlightened mindset of manipulative strategies for love that are commonly practiced today).

? Know how each person is responsible for the solution: The jealous person begins to build their self-esteem by realizing the good qualities within themselves and eliminating those that no longer serve them well. They recognize that the problem is within themselves and not outside. Conversely, the person triggering the jealousy raises their awareness and learns to communicate their increased level of commitment to the relationship by helping the other person to emotional well-being.

When you put all of your energy and focus into healing the jealous person and communicating love and joy to each other on a consistent basis, you will naturally solve your jealousy issues for good.

THE BOTTOM LINE

Jealousy is fear in disguise. When you recognize the causes of jealousy, you'll be on your way to removing it from your relationships. By communicating love, respect, and joy consistently, creatively, and spontaneously, you'll be taking the enlightened approach to gaining and holding the right kind of healthy attention in a loving relationship.








Steve Nakamoto - "The Voice Of The Other Half"
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Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Relationships 101 - The Reality of Smothering Your Girlfriend

Daniel has been writing for over four years now and enjoys covering a multitude of topics from diet, health and fitness to relationships and dating ...


In any relationship, there is a fine line between loving her enough so that she feels validated by you, and the point where your love and affection becomes purely smothering and so suffocating for her, that it eventually leads to her becoming unfaithful to you. Despite however or whatever you think, there is no real and validated means by which you can safely prevent your woman from ever cheating on you, whether it be sexual mastery, the attainment of fame or whatever you think it is, there will never be a true, clear cut method to definably state that your woman will never ever cheat on you. Often times, for any women, her life would present her with a multitude of challenges both in her working life and her love life, and in conjunction with the fact that women are naturally inclined to be subjected to a host of overwhelming emotions beyond her conceivable control - often times it is the man's role to stop these floods of emotion from allowing her to behave in such an irrational and erratic manner. However problems arise when the man is either emotionally unavailable or more commonly emotional over-available to the point, where so many emotions run through her body that she does something stupid or ill-granted like cheat on you.


Probably and most definitely one of the most difficult tasks presented in any relationship, is the capacity for the man to keep his woman interested in him, and to make her constantly realize the problematic circumstances which would arise had she cheated on something she had invested so much time and effort to establish in the first place. Maintaining attraction and investment on her part is by far one of the most difficult things a man can definably achieve, and smothering only makes this more difficult.


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