Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Dating Tips - What to Look For When Searching For the Right Date and the Love of Your Life

You're single and you want to meet the love of your life. Sometimes that can be really challenging. But, it doesn't have to be if you understand one basic concept - you need to hang out with the right people. When you're with the right people, you'll increase your chances of creating the relationship that you desire. So what's "right" when it comes to finding the love of your life? Here are some ideas that you may want to consider as you evaluate if someone is a good match or not.

You have compatible life visions. You have a vision for your life. You know what you want to be, do and have. It's important to you. This is your driving force - what keeps you going day after day as you plan, make goals and then take steps towards achieving those goals.

The right person for you has a life vision compatible with yours. Their goals are not counter to yours, even though they may be very different from yours. Each of you can pursue your vision while enjoying the company of each another.

You both are conscious about the dating choices you make. Neither of you are operating from old bad habits, or from a place of neediness or desperation. Instead you're making grounded, well-thought out decisions about how you'll forward the relationship every step along the way.

You both take personal responsibility for the outcomes in your lives. Neither of you are operating from a place where you blame your parents, your past, or others. You both operate from a place knowing that whatever happens in the relationship is your responsibility - good, bad or indifferent.

You're both willing to work through relationship issues in a positive and productive manner. You surface issues that need to be discussed and never feel pressured to be anything less than fully expressive of your thoughts and feelings with one another.

You're both open to taking the relationship slowly. You both believe that establishing a solid friendship is important for constructing a solid foundation upon which a relationship can be built. You also respect each other and your individual needs for time and space when it comes to moving the relationship along.

These ideas may or may not resonate with you. In any case, they provide you with insight into types of ideas you can come up for yourself as you create your own criteria for determining the right person for you.

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