Are you suffering from a broken love relationship? Was your relationship once easy and carefree, but you're afraid your broken love will lead to a broken romance? Do you want to fix this broken love before it gets out of hand?
Romance comes so easy those first months. It's effortless and we don't have to work at it because the instant passion takes care of everything. However, once that passion begins to return to a more normal level, the truth about our romance hits us in the face. Before long we're looking at a broken love. Here's how to fix it or, better yet, how to avoid it altogether.
Who Did You Fall in Love With
During the dating process men and women tend to be on their best behavior. We're a little more patient than usual and we let a lot of things slide that we usually wouldn't. After all, he's so cute and so nice, so what if he clucks his tongue in an annoying manner every time he has something to say.
Doesn't take too long for that clucking to really get to you though, does it? We learn who he really is, and it's not all that romantic, and he learns that we're not as easy to live with as we may have let on.
The big lesson here is to never assume that everything will be as hunky-dorey as it is those first few months.
True Understanding
Once we get to see the true nature of our partner, it can take a while to actually come to understand the man we fell in love with. Where we thought he was strong, he may have a weakness. Where we thought he was capable, we learn he's inept. It's at this time we discover if we're truly in love or if it is a broken love that we're facing.
The best way to prevent this is to avoid grand illusions of fairy tale endings and see the man before you for who he really is. The higher you put him on a pedestal and consider him perfect in every way, the worst the realization of the mere mortal he is will be for you.
Accepting the Truth
Most women have a pretty set way of looking at a relationship. They want their man to act a certain way, treat them in a certain manner and let go of certain things from his single life. While a degree of this is natural and normal, going over the top isn't. And of course, little of this is discussed during those passion filled first dates.
Few women will tell their new guy that in a very short amount of time he'll have little or no freedom at all if he stays with her.
Respect your guys need to live his life, even if it doesn't completely mesh with yours. Sure we want him to be faithful and present in our lives... that's a given. But to prevent your guy from playing golf, hanging out with his friends or going to that ski weekend isn't the right way to keep a relationship healthy.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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